It's easier to blame another person for why your relationships haven't worked out in the past. It's easier for you to put up walls so no one will break your heart again. It's easier to pretend you don't need love. It's easier to see yourself as perfect. It's easier to whine, bitch and moan about why life has got you down. It's easier to find the next alcoholic beverage or pill of choice to fill any void. It's easier to focus on all things negative and SIT IN IGNORANCE than to live life with purpose.

What's funny is I used to be YOU! Chasing after the ultimate gift, LOVE. Looking for that partner to "complete" me, to make me feel valued and worthy. I abandoned my needs and self sabotaged just to feel validated, for one person to love me. And when it didn't work out, I knew exactly who to blame - the other person. I was cheated on, beaten, lied to, thrown out of windows, guns put to my head, my needs were not met; so how could this be my fault? I was like you....just bitchin' and complaining to my friends why the other person wasn't good enough and better luck next time. Well, at least until I learned these 2 words, PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT. (google it, youtube it, look it up)
I spent the past 3 years, dedicating my time to serving the LGBT community, my family. And, it saddens me to realize that so many of you think you don't need to look within, don't need change and don't care about bettering your life. Well, I do! I want better for you. I am tired of watching the majority of the LGBT community sit in ignorance. If you actually took the time to look within and see your own flaws then you guessed it....You couldn't sit in ignorance anymore, you would grow, evolve and change - you would love differently.
If you want a partner, a lover, a friend to treat you with unconditional, respectful love then be the best example by loving yourself. This starts with Personal Development, looking within! Changing yourself for the better and becoming a positive role model in the LGBT community. Do something other than support FREE BEER parties looking for the next person you can whine about being a victim to.
Invest in this journey for you. I am not saying it will be easy but I can guarantee it will change how you live, see and value the rest of your life. Don't give me the babble of how you are in a happy, committed relationship. That's awesome but make it immensely better, be in constant growth, both of you! I want you to want more for you. I am committed to serving the LGBT community, to transforming lives, one heart and soul at a time. Your heart, Your Soul ...now get to work.
If you don't know how to get started send me a quick email and I will help you find the resources you need on your journey to becoming the BEST YOU! SoulMateGuide@gmail.com
WOW, I so needed this! thank you Debbie. I know I have a long way to go...
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